Ruth Coker Burks was a young single mum in Hot Springs, Arkansas who cared for people with AIDS when no one else would in the 1980s and 1990s. With no medical background, Ruth single-handedly created a network of care, and saw to the final resting places of roughly a thousand men abandoned by families and neglected by medical professionals. For 30 years, Ruth has been an advocate for the LGBTQ community. She currently resides in Northwest Arkansas.
My friend Ruth Coker Burks is one of the most amazing people I
know. The care she gave HIV-positive gay men in and around our
hometown of Hot Springs, Arkansas during the desperate early days
of the AIDS crisis helped them live and die with dignity in the
face of stigma and discrimination. In All the Young Men, Ruth tells
their stories and hers with the same warmth, wit, grace, and
gumption that I have admired for decades. This book will make you
love her as much as I do.
*FORMER PRESIDENT BILL CLINTON*
Deeply moving memoir [that] honours the extraordinary life of Ruth
Coker Burks and the beloved men who fought valiantly for their
lives during a most hostile and misinformed time... a must read
*RU PAUL*
It's a tale of high drama and mesmerising detail, but also of
breath-taking courage and compassion [...]a beautiful book,
catching [Ruth's] Southern sass and charm.
*The Sunday Times*
It's a brighter story of human nature [...] this is a paean to
making friendships across boundaries, to being kind even when the
cost is nearly unbearable.
*The Guardian*
shocking but ultimately uplifting... an extraordinary tale, and its
publication now in the midst of a very different pandemic - one in
which compassion appears to be universal - resonates in a way that
makes it all the more powerful.
*Evening Standard*
a remarkable tale of suffering, kindness and courage... vivid
portrait of this community, which never lost hope and which looked
after its own, got dressed up and found joy amid the tragedy.
*i newspaper*
it's [...] a reminder of the goodness in people and that we have
come through worse things before. At its heart, it's a story of
overcoming fear. And, right now, that might be just what we
need.
*Irish Sunday Independent*
A brilliantly evocative memoir about the 1980s pandemic some people
would still sooner forget - and about a woman who could have easily
turned the other cheek. More Dolly Parton than Mother Teresa, Ruth
Coker Burks doesn't try to paint herself as a heroine: just someone
who couldn't help but do the right thing for hundreds of men dying
alone of AIDS. Ru Paul was right: it's a must-read.
*VIV GROSKOP*
A moving, inspiring testament to one woman's courage, love and
kindness in the midst of a deadly hate-filled pandemic.
*Peter Tatchell*
A truly incredible story told with the most fullest heart warming
honesty. Ruth is an inspiration.
*CARIAD LLOYD*
Know this will be an incredible important read...
*SIMON SAVIDGE, Savidge Reads*
This astonishing modern-day Good Samaritan story will move you to
tears of sadness and outrage, but also buoy you. For Coker Burns is
a do-gooder with sass. And hers is a story of ordinary but heroic
human empathy that we could all do with reading right now.
*CAROLINE SANDERSON, The Bookseller*
In this gripping account, Ruth Coker Burks explains how she became
an 'accidental activist' [...] Her own family life and friendships
were tested to the limit by this work, but her story highlights the
transformative power of kindness.'
*WOMAN*
All The Young Men was extraordinary - she's extraordinary. Love in
action.
*SARAH WINMAN*
A powerful memoir... Burks's spirited, straightforward prose
balances the heartbreak of her story with just enough humor and
toughness. A must-read for anyone interested in narratives of
front-line responses to the early AIDS crisis as well as personal
accounts of kindness and determination.
*Library Journal, starred review*
Burks' vivid memories of 'my guys' and the trials she endured
fighting against prejudice offer a portrait of courageous
compassion that is both rare and inspiring . . . [A] deeply moving,
meaningful book.
*Kirkus Reviews*
Anecdotes of small-town gay bars and drag queen rivalries add
levity to tales of hardship and sacrifice-crosses set ablaze on her
lawn, her young daughter ostracized at school . . . This worthy
account offers as much bitter as sweet.
*Publishers Weekly*
If you are hungry for a humane approach to an epidemic, read this
astonishing book.
*RICHIE JACKSON, author of Gay Like*
Throughout the memoir, it's hard not to fall in love with Burks for
her big-heartedness and enduring sense of humor in the face of
suffering...As Burks forges a path alongside these vulnerable men,
her embrace of education and rejection of bigotry light the way
forward for us all
*Book Page*
All The Young Men is an urgent story that needs to be told about
the early years of AIDS in the American South. From her first
moving encounter with an abandoned young man hours before he died,
Ruth Coker Burks cares for ill gay men and fights homophobia with
compassion, wit, courage and righteous anger. It's inspiring and
compelling to read of her battles against indignities and
intimidation, bigoted families and churches, and demeaning health
care. The reader cheers her on when Coker Burks finds both
opponents and allies in her work. She writes of Jimmy, Howard,
Douglas, Danny, Neil, Tim and Jim, Marc, Bob and Phil, Chip, Luke,
Angel, Jerry, Misty, Billy and all her 'guys': 'I wanted them to be
counted, to have their lives matter.' All The Young Men achieves
that beautifully, memorably, in their honour.
*ROBERT HAMBERGER, author of A Length of Road*
An extraordinary story of an extraordinary woman fighting for the
rights of people with AIDS - and for the very acknowledgement of
their existence - in her native Arkansas, in the early years of the
crisis. Challenging, and sometimes changing hostile attitudes of
individuals, communities, church and state she battled with
courage, wit, knowledge, compassion, and a heart of solid gold for
the local gay community and for those gay men who, coming home to
die, were rejected by their families. Because for Ruth, this was
love in action - it was the right thing to do. She and her daughter
Allie became family with 'her guys'; a simply astonishing
memoir.
*KATE CHARLESWORTH*
this gripping account [...] highlights the transformative power of
kindness.
*Woman & Home*
A beautifully written, moving account of a time that I remember all
too vividly. I'm a long-term survivor with almost thirty years
facing stigma, discrimination and often rejection. We need to
remember how badly the world at large behaved towards a small group
of people who often died alone and in fear, we also need to honour
those few who offered love and support at that time. A deeply
emotional read.
*JUNO ROCHE*
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